Unfortunately I still have to deal with my narcissist on my regular basis for the kids' sake. However, I have learned to deal with this person on my terms. I don't give into his insane baits of trying to lure me into his drama filled life. I don't offer him that satisfaction. Instead, I have learned the hard way to let him rant and rave and act like he is the king of everything.
And when he thinks he has had his way, I find clever ways to deal with him- unbeknownst to him. Taking the power of the narcissist away is both the best defense and offense. I stopped trying to reason with this person a long time ago. This is one time when the adage of "never give up" is just plain wrong. Yes, by all means, give up trying to reason with the narcissist.
Finding the way to deal with the narcissist or just plain, not dealing with him, has been such a better way of dealing with this person. Remember the best revenge is to live the best life you can and not let this person interfere with your happiness. Having fun, laughing, enjoying life- the best way to get even with a narcissist.
About Me
- Soyon
- I graduated from one of the most prestigious schools, got my bachelors and masters in engineering, had a promising career, and had wonderful, beautiful children. By all accounts and appearances, it would have appeared for a long time that I had a great, picturesque life, but underneath it all, I was married to someone who was diagnosed as being narcissistic. My nightmare started almost immediately after I married this person who was Jekyl and Hyde. I want to share my experiences and to let you know what I had to sacrifice and do to get away from this person. My journey still continues as I am still working to fully recover from experiencing this person in my life. I don't think anyone ever really recovers from dealing with such a monster.
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